When I imagine what a legitimately nice guy would look like, he looks like the guy who was walking in the same direction as me after dark one night, who a) crossed the street so he was walking on the other side, not the side I was on; b) picked up his pace slightly so he would pass me, rather than making me feel like he was following behind me; and c) called out a cheerful-sounding "Evening!" as he passed, so I'd know he wasn't lurking silently trying to escape my notice.
That's what a legitimately nice guy looks like when dealing with an unknown woman after dark, IMO.
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branchandroot
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Date: 2010-01-15 09:30 pm (UTC)That's what a legitimately nice guy looks like when dealing with an unknown woman after dark, IMO.
Not "Hey, you want a ride?"