Saying that one person's poly is wrong is just as bad as monagamous people who say that all poly and openh relationships re just different ways of cheating.
Yes the guy who has a don't ask, don't tell relationship may be a douchebag, or that just may be the way that that couple's/ groups relationship happens to work.
I fyou are not comfortable with that, ok then don't play with, get involved with, that person. However, making the blanket statemnet that thst kind of relationship is wrong, or flawed, is no better or more fair than saying all alternative relationships are wrong.
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branchandroot
So yes to be the grouch here
Date: 2008-08-06 09:11 pm (UTC)Yes the guy who has a don't ask, don't tell relationship may be a douchebag, or that just may be the way that that couple's/ groups relationship happens to work.
I fyou are not comfortable with that, ok then don't play with, get involved with, that person. However, making the blanket statemnet that thst kind of relationship is wrong, or flawed, is no better or more fair than saying all alternative relationships are wrong.
Just my rant