We all have that person we're attracted to, but know it's a BAD IDEA For whatever reason: You live with them, they're 'not your type', you don't want them to fall for you, vice versa, your best friend has the hots for them, you swore off sex for a year after your last breakup(You've already covered the marriage thing).
You have a couple of drinks, you end up alone together, and are overcome with the worst case of Teh HORNEEE you can remember, and wow, here's this perfectly attractive potential partner who may or may not be nuzzling your ears, or talking in a husky voice about...say...the evolutionary reasons behind the mating behavior of weaver birds with his shirt half-open and a Han Solo pose(woops, OK, that's MY fantasy). The reasons you had for not engaging in a great rubbing of parts seem distant and tertiary at best.
NOW, imagine this person -whom you may well consider a friend- has deliberately created this situation.
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Date: 2008-08-14 10:32 pm (UTC)We all have that person we're attracted to, but know it's a BAD IDEA For whatever reason: You live with them, they're 'not your type', you don't want them to fall for you, vice versa, your best friend has the hots for them, you swore off sex for a year after your last breakup(You've already covered the marriage thing).
You have a couple of drinks, you end up alone together, and are overcome with the worst case of Teh HORNEEE you can remember, and wow, here's this perfectly attractive potential partner who may or may not be nuzzling your ears, or talking in a husky voice about...say...the evolutionary reasons behind the mating behavior of weaver birds with his shirt half-open and a Han Solo pose(woops, OK, that's MY fantasy). The reasons you had for not engaging in a great rubbing of parts seem distant and tertiary at best.
NOW, imagine this person -whom you may well consider a friend- has deliberately created this situation.