For the Guys. False Rape Accusations: Discuss

[polimicks]

zabieru asked me if I'd be willing to host a discussion amongst the guys on their take on the "Epidemic" of false rape accusations that gets trotted out every time I, or any other woman, starts to talk about rape.

Yes, I know, I'm not so good at reining in the bias about this topic.

So, I'll be turning this over to the guys. I will not edit. I will not delete unless the venom and name-calling get out of hand. I will let the guys have this discussion, and urge the girls to let them have it as well. If you fear it will be too triggering, don't read it.

This post is ALL about the comments, so it's in their hands.

Comments

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[falserapeguy.livejournal.com]

And I agree false claims don't happen all the time. Are you familiar with Professor Kanin's study? He is otherwise a feminist hero but his is the only serious study ever done of this phenomenon -- in his study he found 41% of rape claims not just false but actually recanted. And yes, nine to closer to 50% is a big gap -- but that just shows the author's honesty. All due respect but when you say 8% -- you have no idea. No one is able to pinpoint it with that degree of precision. THAT is why "Until Proven Innocent" gets it right. The point is, it is not uncommon. So why must we insist on minimizing it instead of examining how to reduce such false claims, and how to HELP the victims of false claims.

That last part -- helping the victims of false claims -- is something that self-proclaimed feminists routinely dismiss by insisting "hey, it's not a real problem." With all due respect.

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[falserapeguy.livejournal.com]

P.S. Respectfully, the alleged "myth" that everyone thinks women always lie about rape is a straw man used by feminists to raise awareness about rape and to minimize false rape claims. No reasonable person believes that all women lie about rape in this day and age. Perhaps at one time in the past, not today. In fact, the opposite is far closer to the truth about what people believe. How to test it? Any time a woman claims she was raped, even the news media implicitly believes her -- and the guy's name is splashed all over the newspaper for world to titilate to his humiliation. Check out my Web site and see the harm that is inflicted on men and boys on the basis of a claim that turns out to be false. They've been beaten and killed (honestly -- killed), they've lost their wives, girlfriends and businesses because of false rape claims -- all because the accuser is automatically believed, and the guy's reputation is pretty much destroyed. Some guys are forced to move away (even when it's proven the claim was false).

Yet to raise awareness about rape, feminists keep trotting out this manufacturered "myth" that everyone thinks all women lie about rape. It is a myth that people actually believe THAT.

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[polimicks.livejournal.com]

I'll check out Kanin, but you do realize that an awful lot of recanting happens because women (and men) are afraid of who they are accusing, or the accused friends and family... Or just don't want to go through the trial and all the horrible crap that goes with it.

It really isn't as simple as "Oh, she recanted, it obviously isn't true."

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[falserapeguy.livejournal.com]

Prof. Kanin specifically considered the recanting issue and determined it was not a problem. And check my Web site -- recantations almost always occur in the face of overwhelming evidence (no, not lie detector evidence) that a lie has been told. But virtually NO false rape claims are classified as "false" without it, so the odds are good that there are many more false claims than recantations. A recantation is generally the inevitable confession after the accuser's story has completely fallen apart.

This is not directed at you because you seem open-minded, but isn't it amusing that feminists claim women don't lie about rape -- EXCEPT when it comes to recanting. And what of the obvious corollary: Men accused of rape who claim the woman made a false report invariably lie, and men accused of rape who confess to it invariably are telling the truth.

Did you get that? Any time someone speaks in a manner intended to send a male to prison for a rape accusation, they are telling the truth. Any time someone speaks in a manner intended to keep a male out of prison for an alleged rape, that is a lie.